Beverly Hills Matchmakers Reveal 4 Signs You're Not in Love

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We can trick ourselves into thinking we are really in love, and sometimes lust can feel like love. Everyone wants to experience love, so people will do anything to believe they are really in love. If you have been wondering whether or not you’re in love but need a few signs to back it up, we got you! Our professional matchmakers here at Los Angeles Singles Dating Service can help you figure out the answer.

Today, our Beverly Hills matchmakers will show you signs you are not really in love with your boyfriend but rather experiencing lust.

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1. Date Nights Are Gone

What isn’t better than going out on a date with your boyfriend? You can get dressed up and show him off around the city! It is a pretty great feeling when you get ready for two hours and he notices and gives you nice compliments. In a healthy relationship, these types of nights happen often. You wouldn’t miss it for the world.

If you don’t get excited or have a desire to get ready for him, it’s time to contemplate why you’re dating him. Of course, everyone gets a little lazy from time to time when you are in a long-term relationship, there is denying that. But the two of you should be happy to go out together. If you don’t get excited to spend quality time with him, then you don’t really love him.

2. The Affection Is Gone

There is no hand-holding. Every time he reaches for your hand, well, you aren’t really in the mood. The thought of him touching you irritates the life out of you. We are pretty sure you can think about to a time where you were actually in love with him and couldn’t keep your hands off him. We all know that couple! The one that makes intense eye contact in the super market and pays no attention to anyone around them. Nothing else matters, they feel like they can take on the world together.

3. Everything is Only Physical

But what if you’re just starting to date? How do you know what you have is real love, not lust? Love is a balance of physical and emotional connections between two partners. Lust is a complete different animal and people often confuse it with love. A major clue between the two is time. It takes a long time to get to know someone and fall in love with them. Lust is the first state of love. But it progresses as you get to know them. You start to care about his well-being and it’s not about a physical component all the time. Lust is purely physical and nothing else.

4. There Are Toxic Fights

A relationship should never reach a point of having toxic fights. Toxic fights are abuse and two people who really love each other will never want to do that to each other. A toxic fight involves a lot of name-calling and harsh comments between you. These are the types of arguments that bring up past mistakes and the words exchanged are only to hurt each other.

This is a situation that you should never be in. Love should never be toxic, it is fulfilling and pure. Being in love makes you want to be a better person. Your boyfriend will motivate you to get out there, not bring you down and say bad things about you. And if you are doing that to him, you are definitely not in love with him. Remember that.

If you notice a couple of these warning signs in your relationship, it’s time to move on. You’re not in love; in fact, you’re not even in a healthy relationship.

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